When we let go of what other people think about us, our attachment and limitations and our own story (in many instances being the victim), we gain access to our worthiness. Feeling worthy is important step in reaching higher levels in life. You can’t truly and freely give and receive in life, if you don’t believe inside you are worthy. You can’t let people be vulnerable and allow them to communicate with you without judgment, if you are don’t feel you are worthy. When you believe you are worthy, you allow others the gift of being themselves around you. And there is so much more…
Many people try to distance themselves or repress the part of our lives and past that don’t fit in with who we think we are supposed to be. We, in essence, stand outside ourselves and perform for others to try and please them or seek approval. We need this external approval because we don’t see that worthiness is inside all of us.
A great struggle many people have is feeling worthy right this second (i.e. just as you are reading this). They believe they will only be worthy if this accomplish certain goals, advancements, material possessions, etc. They may also need to feel like they fit in and have someone or some group accept them. But that is not true. Being worth is not a future state, but the present place where you are this very instant.
If you believe worthiness is in the future, you will never attain it. There will always be preconditions in your mind, and you will never own your story. You will always be stuck in your life and never truly be in touch with the world around you. Happiness will always evade you. Life will pass you by. Regret and suffering will fill you up. Instead, close your eyes and say out loud I am worthy right now. Feel yourself being worthy of having an extraordinary life. When you take this step, everything is possible.